Thursday, July 14, 2011

The process is the cure.

I believe graphology is the only medium where the process of analysis becomes the cure in itself.

There is nothing much needed after the analysis session. I see individuals feel the impact with each statement. It is like every truth is setting them free. Each statement of analysis helps you heal yourself and uncover your true self like the layers of the onion...and just like the onion, you realize there is nothing much to you. We worry so unnecessarily. We worry and form an image and use that image to scare ourselves. There are times when people call me for 4 to 5 days at a stretch, ask all the possible questions in the world related to graphology and end up not coming to me at all. Maybe coming to an analysis includes letting go of fear.

Maybe those who come to me are already on the journey to heal themselves.

Friday, July 8, 2011

A graphologist feels helpless

A few people ask me how much will grapho-therapy help them. To which I always sigh and my reply is that I can honestly tell you what to do but it is upto you to do it or not.
The phrase - You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink really summarizes my feelings. I know the value and the use of the change in sign, I can tell you the correct way to sigh, show you the best way to live, I cannot make you live it though. I sometimes feel helpless when I see people struggle even when I have showed them a way out.
Grapho-therapy can work wonders if done correctly. My only request is not to give up on it and try it once for at least 6 months... and then you can come back to me and tell me that it worked :)

Friday, July 1, 2011

The ones who doesn't want analysis done is always the one who calls the rest.

I was analyzing handwriting samples of a group of people who work together. Analyzing with people who know each other is FUN. I mostly end up with fits of laughter as they share the stories to back up my analysis. They know each other well and it gets interesting as the atmosphere becomes energetic and charged.

What amazes me is there is always one person who will say that he doesn't believe in graphology or grapho-therapy. I don't say much to such people, I analyze their sample if they agree and then await for the change in behavior.. What I fail to understand is the effect my analysis does on them. This same individual ends up calling all his friends in the office, literally drag them and almost stand on my head and tells me to do analysis for them.

It is so funny and cute.