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My Doctor's handwriting

I was chatting with my doc when he told me to analyze his signature. I had the time and said to myself - Why not?

When I saw that he suffered from backache, my initial bias told me not to tell him.

Later As i realized that there were a lot of other things that got clubbed together and the backache trait was prominent, I decided to tell him but I chose my words carefully. I said, “I know that you are a doctor and might have treated it by now, but your signature shows that you suffer from back ache”

He replied “Yes, doctors also die u know”

To which I smiled and justified “Ya, but I thought u must have treated it by now”

He explained that there was a small formation in his back and it would trigger due to stress only and he didn't say much and we went to the next topic

Anyway, I realized that how prejudiced I can be... not just like a graphologist but also as an human being. We assume that our docs are close to God. For some reason don’t we all assume that nothing bad can happen to them?

Why the couple DIDN'T fight

I recently met this married couple who wanted a compatibility test through graphology. When I saw the signature, the first thing that hit me was that both of them were short tempered and this trait was very very prominent, so as an opener to my analysis, I asked them "Both of you seem to be short tempered, So do you guys argue a lot? and is that the reason you want this compatibility test done?

Both of them looked at each other and said no to me.

I was baffled. I asked them if they followed the right steps to make the sample. Were they angry before they sat to write for the sample or calm and composed?

They both shook their head in unison and told me that they wrote it separately and assured me that they were calm and composed.

I rechecked - Yes, both of them were short tempered. They were married for 4 years and the honeymoon phase was definitely over. So were they really that much in love that they didn't lose it on the spouse? It seemed negative because the lady was slightly outspoken and didn't seem like the one who would repress anger and not respond.

The man told me to carry on and tell them more stuff. I moved on but the argument factor stayed with me. They were either lying to me or there was something that I was missing and that is when I saw the trait of always having the last word in the argument. I always thought that this trait meant that the person would tend to fight and argue more than normal and I just concluded in my small little head that it was not the best quality for an individual to have, but I realized that this was present in both of them and this was the quality that avoided arguments. Both of them being short tempered and impatient, didn't like to stretch arguments and just believed that what they said was right and was the last of the argument. This caused no friction. It is so fascinating, I believe I could keep working till eternity and would never cease to meet such interesting people.

I am happy

This is the post minutes later i realized that i was going to definitely pursue graphology as my profession.

I am happy

Things in life are good.

My internet connection is slow from a couple of days and there is just one more thing in life that is slightly bothering me…besides this, life is super great and I am lovin it

Most of u know your life’s calling. I have come close to an experience where I can say that this thing gives me good, pure joy and it feels ultra great. As most of you know that I have recently finished my graphology course and have become a certified graphologist. I am super happy about this. I have started helping out my friends in HR and recruitment and am in process of helping a friend find a compatible partner for marriage.

Recently I analyzed my school friend’s handwriting. The experience was amazing. Not just for him but also for me. When I saw a smile of relief on his face after he learnt something about him, I felt that this was it. This was so it. This is what I want to do. I analyzed his handwriting on Saturday, and today we met again. The changes in him are actually noticeable. His level of confidence in himself has gone up. He called up our common friend to tell how amazing it was for him. I couldn’t believe that he would do something like that. It showed how good he felt. It feels so good to see someone lose their weight and fly free. It is going to keep me happy throughout a month I think. : )

So, Life’s good!

Learn Learn Learn

I wrote this after i finished my graphology course. Since this is my blogsite for everything related to graphology, i think that this is my first post ever on that subject.

Learning is soooo very important. I am doing my graphology course as most of u know. You really have to be away from learning for some time to realise how important it is. In my graphology class, I recently learned about the brain being just like a computer. Programming is done by the same 1 and 0 as for everyone. This concept really made me accept myself and not judge others.

You can learn from anyone, without even having a formal or informal relationship with them. My kids teach me to play carom on our event day. The process, the teachers and the students is wonderful.

I have learnt to take life as it comes from a very special friend. He has changed my outlook towards my life and my life plans to a great extent. He is the most hard working guy i know and the most professional person i know. Sometime’s u don’t even know where life takes u and what it might teach. Be open to it. Accept it.

Learning never goes waste. Never!!!